Missionary Resource Center
Guides for the family of an LDS missionary, in six stages from the mission papers to their first months home. Start with the stage your family is in now.
Papers are in
From meeting with the bishop to the call.
- The mission papers, from a parent's sideThe bishop first, the medical and dental exams, the interviews, and when papers go in.
- Waiting for the callHow a call is made and arrives, who to ask if it seems long, and what to do meanwhile.
- What a mission costs, and who paysThe monthly contribution, when it starts, who can help, and money in the field.
- Tips for new missionariesStudy habits, packing, money, staying in touch, homesickness and companions.
The call came
From opening the call to the day they leave.
- Opening the mission callHow the call arrives, opening it together, family far away, and what comes next.
- The missionary packing listLuggage, clothes for elders and sisters, the daily bag, and a checklist to print.
- Collect email addresses with a QR flyerOur flyer and social post with a QR code, so friends and family can join their email list.
- The farewell talk and the family gatheringThe talk in sacrament meeting, what the handbook asks, and a family gathering.
- Set apart, then the home MTCThe setting apart, classes at home, a companion when they go out, and time with family.
The first weeks
The MTC, and their first weeks in the field.
- The MTC, from a parent's sideDrop-off day, a day at the MTC, and when they can first write home.
- Letters and packages to the MTCTheir MTC mailing address, how to send letters and packages, and what not to send.
- How your missionary writes homeEmail, letters and calls on P-day, who calls whom, and what to do in an emergency.
- When the first letters are hardHomesick letters, what to write back, and who is there for your missionary.
Midway through
The months between the first weeks and the last.
- Care packages, wherever they serveWhich address to use, the mission's guidelines, customs abroad, and what to send.
- Christmas, birthdays and the halfway markCalls on special days, mailing for Christmas and birthdays, and the halfway point.
- A week in your missionary's life: P-day, companions, transfersTheir daily schedule, P-day, companions and exchanges, and what a transfer means.
- What to write them each weekAnswering their letter, news from home, your own faith, and what to leave out.
- When something is wrong: illness, emergencies and the mission presidentIllness, hard news from home, safety and disasters, and who contacts whom.
Coming home soon
The last months, and the homecoming.
- Save your missionary's email accountGoogle Takeout steps for your missionary, before it closes about 60 days after release.
- Homecoming day: the airport, the release and the talkMeeting the flight, the stake president's release, the talk, and a family gathering.
- Homecoming gifts that lastSeven ideas, from help saving their mission email to something from where they served.
- When a missionary comes home earlyWelcoming them home without blame, words to use, and who is there to help.
- Tips for returning missionariesThe last weeks, the release, the first days home, and what comes next.
Home again
After the homecoming, and keeping their letters.
- The first months home, from a parent's sideThe plan they made, church and school at home, and who can help if it is hard.
- Gathering it all: letters, photos and postsThe mission email account first, then their photos, posts and paper keepsakes.
- Turning their emails into a book: the ways to do itPrinting them yourself, a scrapbook, or a service, and what to ask before you choose.
- Emojis in their bookIn our Memory Books, the emojis in their emails and posts print in color.
- Emails in another language, in their bookIn our Memory Books, their emails print in the language and script they wrote them in.